
Verbal abuse is hurtful and usually attacks the nature and abilities of a person. Over time, that person may begin to believe that there is something wrong with his or her abilities. They may come to feel that they are the problem, rather than the abuser.
Verbal abuse is manipulative and controlling. Even disparaging comments may be voiced in an extremely sincere and concerned way. But the goal is to control and manipulate.
Verbal abuse usually escalates, increasing in intensity, frequency, and variety. The verbal abuse may begin with put-downs disguised as jokes. Later other forms might surface. Sometimes the verbal abuse may escalate into physical abuse, starting with "accidental" shoves, pushes, and bumps.
Name-calling can also be verbal abuse. Continually calling someone "stupid" because she or he isn't as intelligent as you or calling them a "klutz" because they are not as coordinated can have a devastating effect on that persons self esteem.
This world is cruel. And trust me, if you haven’t seen the worst of it, your verbal opponent will have NO MERCY. Once you are embarrassed, defeated and your reputation is damaged, they will not stop to pound your emotional body into submission. There is no reason why you cannot turn the tables on this abuse!
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He says If you fail, I have failed. If I cannot accomplish my goal of teaching you all I know, I am in debt to you, for your time and for your commitment.